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  • Jesse Thompson

03/08/23 - Jesus Told Nicodemus about Eternal Life.

Updated: Mar 20, 2023

Our lives will be evidence for loving God above all else.

Dear families,

Light and darkness are contrasted throughout the Scriptures. In John 3, Jesus explained to Nicodemus the hope and grace of God and the means by which He saves. Consider what Jesus was saying as He emphasized this contrast in this conversation. 

In John 3:19-21, Jesus said, “This is the judgment: The light has come into the world, and people loved darkness rather than the light because their deeds were evil. For everyone who does evil hates the light and avoids it, so that his deeds may not be exposed. But anyone who lives by the truth comes to the light, so that his works may be shown to be accomplished by God.” 

Jesus said that judgment is coming—and has arrived—because people loved the darkness more than the light. Ultimately, Jesus was referring to Himself, having entered the world to overcome the darkness. But as John 1 says, He was not recognized as the light, even by His own people. 

Some two thousand years later, the question is, do we too love the darkness, or have we truly received the light? And how can we know? Jesus helps us answer this question. 

One might summarize Jesus’ response this way: if you love the darkness, your deeds will be evil. If you love the light, your works will be obvious evidence of the power of God. The evidence of whether we love the darkness or the light is found in the way we live. 

Do you live in a way that expresses your love for light or for darkness? Is there a clear picture of the power of God in your decisions, actions, and words? Do people see the work of God and hear of His power when they interact with you? 

It’s easy to answer these important questions with aspirations, but we cannot convince God of what is not true. And even further, our aspirations mean nothing without a deep dependence on God's transformation for our lives. Though we find evidence of what we love in how we live, ultimately God looks at the heart. Our lives will be evidence for loving God above all else. In our faithful pursuit of the light, the evidence will show itself.

Check out the resources below designed to help you lead your family in worship as well as suggestions for morning and evening prayer times and family activities. You can also find the Adult Daily Discipleship Guide that accompanies our adult groups.




This is the big idea of how this week’s Bible story points to Jesus.

  • Preschool: God showed His love by sending His one and only Son to rescue people from sin. Jesus gives us life forever with God. 

  • Kids: Nicodemus needed new life—eternal life—but he could not do anything to earn it. Eternal life is a gift that comes only from God. God showed His love in this way: He sent His one and only Son to save the world. Everyone who believes in Him will not perish but will have eternal life. 


This is an important biblical truth that your child will encounter each week of this unit. 

  • Preschool: How do we know God loves us? We can know that God loves us because He sent His Son Jesus. 

  • Kids: How do we know God loves us? We can know that God loves us because He gave us Jesus to forgive the sins of the world. 


This is a Bible verse that relates to what your child will encounter each week of this unit. 

  • Preschool: We know that God loves us because He sent His Son Jesus. Romans 5:8 

  • Kids: But God proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8 


At Home

Family Worship, Prayer, and Activities
Family Worship Unit 20 Session 1
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Adult Daily Discipleship Guide
Adult Daily Discipleship Guide Unit 20 Session 1
Download PDF • 991KB

** Next week: Jesus Told a Woman about Living Water (John 4)


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